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2008-12-06
MtF FtM
This month Julia and I had to take care of the cash register again at the T&T-evening. And we had a lot to do! Every month we start with 500 coins to sell and this time I even had to go to the bar to get some of the coins back, because we were sold out!
The community center is busy adding a new room to the building that will be the official smoking area. This was the first time we could enter that room. It was not completely decorated yet, but soon it was the best place to be.
Soon the heating will be functional too and we will only have to get out of the smoking room to get our drinks at the bar...
Julia and I got a bit confused by one of our new guests. It was a guy from Belgium. He asked us whether there were more boys frequenting our monthly events. We did not quite get it at first. Maybe he was a homosexual, looking to meet other gay people? In that case the T&T-evening is not the right place to go.
Julia is never too shy to ask difficult questions and she also manages to hit the right tone, so that the questions don't even sound embarassing when she asks them. And so we found out the truth: This boy was born in a female body! Even now that we knew, we had to look very closely to see any sign of that. OK, he did have a smooth skin and a smooth complexion, but many young man have that. There was no sign of any facial hair, but that could have been attained by a close shave as well. Fortunately he did not have large breasts, for that would have been difficult to hide. To be quite honest we saw nothing indicating he was an FtM (female to male transsexual). We don't see many FtMs on our evenings and that is a pity, because we want our evenings to be the place for all transgender people to get together in a safe, informal atmosphere.
Anyway, he did have a good time. He chatted a lot with Julia and me and with others too. And he danced a lot with his MtF girlfriend. What a nice couple! I do hope we will see them more often on our T&T-evenings in Eindhoven.
Previous T&T evenings: November 2008, October 2008, September 2008, August 2008, July 2008, May 2008, March 2008, February 2008, December 2007, October 2007, October 2006, September 2006, August 2006, July 2006, June 2006, May, April, March, February, January, December, November, October, September, July 2005, June 2005, May 2005, April 2005, March 2005, February 2005, January 2005, December 2004, November 2004, October 2004, September 2004, August 2004, July 2004, June 2004, May 2004 and April 2004.
The community center is busy adding a new room to the building that will be the official smoking area. This was the first time we could enter that room. It was not completely decorated yet, but soon it was the best place to be.
Soon the heating will be functional too and we will only have to get out of the smoking room to get our drinks at the bar...Julia and I got a bit confused by one of our new guests. It was a guy from Belgium. He asked us whether there were more boys frequenting our monthly events. We did not quite get it at first. Maybe he was a homosexual, looking to meet other gay people? In that case the T&T-evening is not the right place to go.
Julia is never too shy to ask difficult questions and she also manages to hit the right tone, so that the questions don't even sound embarassing when she asks them. And so we found out the truth: This boy was born in a female body! Even now that we knew, we had to look very closely to see any sign of that. OK, he did have a smooth skin and a smooth complexion, but many young man have that. There was no sign of any facial hair, but that could have been attained by a close shave as well. Fortunately he did not have large breasts, for that would have been difficult to hide. To be quite honest we saw nothing indicating he was an FtM (female to male transsexual). We don't see many FtMs on our evenings and that is a pity, because we want our evenings to be the place for all transgender people to get together in a safe, informal atmosphere.
Anyway, he did have a good time. He chatted a lot with Julia and me and with others too. And he danced a lot with his MtF girlfriend. What a nice couple! I do hope we will see them more often on our T&T-evenings in Eindhoven.
Previous T&T evenings: November 2008, October 2008, September 2008, August 2008, July 2008, May 2008, March 2008, February 2008, December 2007, October 2007, October 2006, September 2006, August 2006, July 2006, June 2006, May, April, March, February, January, December, November, October, September, July 2005, June 2005, May 2005, April 2005, March 2005, February 2005, January 2005, December 2004, November 2004, October 2004, September 2004, August 2004, July 2004, June 2004, May 2004 and April 2004.
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